Happy Valentine's Day! I used to really hate Valentine's Day. Part of it could have been jealousy. My parents and boyfriends didn't turn it into some wild extravaganza. There were always the predictable token gestures, but nothing wildly romantic. I also felt that you should be showing your love for someone every day of the year - not just when commercialism tells you to. You know, the typical intellectual response for someone who just doesn't want to be disappointed.
But I love romance. I love surprises. I love presents. So why shouldn't I celebrate this day? Why should I let my sweetie off easy? We should do something for each other. Not to prove we love each other, but just because we do. I mean, I expect a token of affection for my birthday, why not for Valentine's day?
If you don't have a significant other the celebrate V-Day with, you can still celebrate it. Share it with your children, your friends, your pets. Whatever! Just bask in the glow of those who love you. Heck, celebrate yourself. Who says you can't buy a beautiful bouquet of flowers and give it to yourself? You're special and it's important that you recognize it. Better yet, write a letter to yourself talking about all the things you love about yourself.
Here's mine:
Dear Lynn,
You have had an amazing year. You are definitely carving a place for yourself and your profession in your new school. Everyone is so impressed with the work that you do. You are super smart. It amazes me that you know how to find so much information on almost any subject. You are such a kind and caring person. And your students are learning about making a difference in the world because you are teaching them about compassion and how to appreciate all the wonderful things they have. The Pennies for Peace campaign exceeded all your expectations and that is because you really are making a difference.
You are a wonderful mom and wife. Trying to juggle your needs with those of your family is always hard, but you manage to do it without sacrificing who you are.
Lynn, you are a phenomenal woman. I know you are going to continue to accomplish great things.
Love, Lynn
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